Why am I the one with the problem? 3/27/18

I find it fascinating/confusing/frustrating that just because I can't seem to control my addiction to a drug, I am the one with the problem. Just because I don't want to put a poison in my body that makes me feel crappy, I am the one labeled as a problem drinker or can't seem to control an addiction or have some sort of genetic defect that makes it hard for me to drink "normally." Does anyone else hear how stupid that sounds? Why does that make me the one with the problem or defective in some way.  The thought of that is absurd!